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Stressful

Dawter T likes to play and watch tv --- a lot!!! That sometimes she hurries her school work to be able to...

Problem is, when we check her school work, she usually has to redo. With that comes a bit of a sermon from me and her dad.

I feel that she gets too stressed... The education system here is like "matira, matibay"... I was telling a friend and my sister last night, I never studied when I was in grade school but I still managed to get decent grades. I just can't imagine that my kids had to burn the midnight oil to study and do homework. To top it all, (I am guilty of this), push them hard to study.

With Dawter T's case, I guess it's not only me and Pre, even Bebi A adds to her woes. Imagine Dawter T almost crying because we had to practice her additions and subtractions over and over again... Then, this little tweet will tell her ate "Ate, if you don't study, you will go back to my school!!!" With a slang "Sige ka" in the end...

Que horror!

Comments

Unknown said…
natawa naman ako kay bebi a.. mega threat kay ate nya haha!
Unknown said…
haha, alaskador pa ha? eh kasi artist ang oldest mo kaya di detalyado sa ibang subjects hehe..wag ka, d2 grabe rin private schools sa dami ng homeworks, kakaawa mga kids, walang buhay talaga..gone are the happy days like we did use to have...as you say we never sweated it, good graddes pa rin....time change, i guess????

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